Am 31.08.2025 wäre mein guter Freund und Podcast-Co-Host Christian Kohlhof 55 Jahre alt geworden. Leider hat er diesen Geburtstag nicht mehr erlebt und ist viel zu früh und plötzlich im Juli 2025 verstorben.

In der Verarbeitung von Trauer, Verwirrung und einem Gefühl des Alleinseins lade ich euch ein, gemeinsam mit mir eine besondere Episode als Geburtstagsgeschenk für Christian zu gestalten: mit Geschichten über ihn, gerne auch mit Ausdruck von Dankbarkeit und Vergebung, was vielleicht schwierig war.

Christian war begeisterter Podcast und hat mich damals überredet, diesen Podcast mit ihm anzufangen. Ich habe viel daraus mitgenommen, bin sehr dankbar und hoffe, mit diesem Beitrag in seinem Sinne etwas zurückgeben zu können.

Herzlichen Dank für eure Beiträge – und dafür, dass wir Christian und sein Wirken in Erinnerung halten.

Michael

What do you really communicate when you enter a room? In this episode, we reveal the invisible layer of leadership—body language. Learn how gestures, posture, and tone can make or break your message. Discover the power of physical congruence and how to lead more consciously, starting with your presence.

What’s the secret sauce behind true leadership influence? In this energizing episode, we dissect the chapter Creating Rapport and uncover the deep mechanics of connection, trust, and real dialogue. Learn why real leaders focus on how they show up, not just what they say. Tune in to learn how to build relationships that matter.

Most of what we communicate isn’t said out loud. In this episode, we explore the “Iceberg of Communication” and how understanding this powerful model can transform the way you lead. Dive into the unspoken world of assumptions, emotions, and unconscious signals that influence every conversation. Learn how to tune into what’s beneath the surface—and become a more empathetic, effective leader.

Repetition isn’t a weakness—it’s leadership in action. This episode introduces the “Chief Repeating Officer,” a playful yet powerful mindset shift for leaders. Discover why the most effective leaders don’t just say something once—they repeat, reinforce, and realign, building clarity and consistency within their teams.

How do the words you choose affect your leadership success? In this episode, we explore the concept of Positive Language—an essential leadership skill. You'll learn how shifting your vocabulary from problem-focused to solution-oriented changes not only how others perceive you but how you think and act. Positive language isn't about ignoring reality—it's about shaping it constructively.

What makes influence sustainable and sincere? In this episode, Michael and Christian delve into what it really means to influence others effectively. They challenge the myth that influence is about control, instead highlighting how leaders shape outcomes through alignment, trust, and example.

If you’ve ever wondered how to lead with intention and integrity, this conversation is your blueprint.

What if small details were the difference between average results and exceptional ones? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the role of detail orientation in leadership, quality, and team performance.

They reflect on how our natural preferences influence how we handle details—and how we can train our focus when it matters. You’ll learn why attention to detail is a mindset, not a personality trait, and how to cultivate it without getting overwhelmed. If you want to improve precision, reliability, and execution, this episode is for you.

What if being fully present—right here, right now—was the missing piece to your clarity and peace of mind? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the power of presence in leadership and everyday life.

Through stories and reflections, they show how practicing presence leads to better decisions, calmer responses, and more meaningful interactions. You’ll learn how to notice when your mind is elsewhere and gently return to the current moment. If you’re searching for more focus, purpose, and calm in a fast-paced world, this episode is for you.

What if truly listening to others was the key to better collaboration, stronger relationships, and more effective leadership? In this episode, Michael and Christian explore the art of conscious listening—and why it’s more than just hearing words.

They discuss how listening requires presence, patience, and a willingness to hold space without immediately offering advice. You’ll hear how empathy, self-awareness, and the ability to stay curious can transform conversations and build trust. If you’re looking to become a better communicator and more mindful leader, this episode offers valuable insight.